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Storge

στοργή · STOR-gay · Greek · noun
positiveintensity: lowtrust

Natural, instinctive affection.

Definition

Natural, instinctive affection — especially that of parents for children and children for parents; the familiar, undemonstrative love that grows out of family life.

Connotation & usage

Instinctive and kinship-based, unlike eros (desire) or philia (chosen friendship). Rarely used in ancient texts, and almost exclusively for family relationships.

Literal sense

στοργή (storgḗ), from στέργω (“to love,” chiefly non-sexual affection).

Related words

Etymology

Ancient Greek στοργή, from the verb στέργω. The English word is a learned borrowing attested from c. 1600.

How it has changed

Liddell-Scott: “love, affection,” especially of parents and children. Rare in antiquity and chiefly for family bonds. Popularized in modern times by C. S. Lewis's The Four Loves (1960) and adopted as a love-style by John Alan Lee (1973).

Dispute & caveat

Genuinely attested Ancient Greek, but comparatively rare. See the note on the popular “8 loves” framework.

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