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Philautia

φιλαυτία · fih-LAW-tee-uh · Greek · noun
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Self-love — in two senses: a healthy regard for one's own well-being (a prerequisite for loving others), and an unhealthy, excessive self-obsession akin to vanity or selfishness..

Definition

Self-love — in two senses: a healthy regard for one's own well-being (a prerequisite for loving others), and an unhealthy, excessive self-obsession akin to vanity or selfishness.

Connotation & usage

The only inward-facing love in the set. For Aristotle it underlies and enables the other loves — one must love oneself rightly to extend philia to others (“another oneself”).

Literal sense

φιλαυτία (philautía), from φίλος (“loving”) + αὐτός (autós, “self”).

Related words

Etymology

Ancient Greek φιλαυτία, compound of φίλος + αὐτός.

How it has changed

Treated by Aristotle (Nicomachean Ethics Book IX, ch. 8): he distinguishes base self-love from the best self-love, treating proper self-love as the root of love for others. Later traditions stressed the negative pole (vanity); modern usage often reclaims the positive (self-compassion).

Dispute & caveat

One of five genuinely attested Ancient Greek love terms (primarily a philosophical term in Aristotle). See the note on the popular “8 loves” framework.

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