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Eros

ἔρως · EH-ross · Greek · noun
positiveintensity: highjoyanticipation

Passionate, intense, predominantly sexual or romantic love and desire..

Definition

Passionate, intense, predominantly sexual or romantic love and desire. In Plato, reframed as desire for beauty that can ascend toward ideal Beauty itself (the root of “platonic love”).

Connotation & usage

Driven by desire and attraction, unlike philia (affection between equals) or storge (familial affection). Unlike agape, it does not require selfless, reciprocity-free giving.

Literal sense

ἔρως (érōs); related verb ἐράω, “to desire, love passionately.”

Related words

Etymology

From Ancient Greek ἔρως, cognate with the god Eros (Roman Cupid).

How it has changed

Liddell-Scott glosses it as “love, mostly of sexual passion.” Plato's Symposium and Phaedrus elevate it into desire for transcendent beauty. Gives English “erotic”; Modern Greek erotas means intimate love.

Dispute & caveat

One of five genuinely attested Ancient Greek love terms. See any Greek-love entry's note on the popular “8 loves” framework.

Sources

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