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Agape

ἀγάπη · ah-GAH-pay · Greek · noun
positiveintensity: hightrust

Selfless, self-giving love directed at the good of another without requiring reciprocity..

Definition

Selfless, self-giving love directed at the good of another without requiring reciprocity. Classically, affection (including within family); in Christian thought, unconditional, charitable love extended to all.

Connotation & usage

Not driven by desire (unlike eros); universal and non-reciprocal (unlike philia and storge) — given as will or obligation rather than felt attraction or kinship. Aquinas glossed it as “to will the good of another.”

Literal sense

ἀγάπη (agápē); verb ἀγαπάω attested as far back as Homer.

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Etymology

Ancient Greek ἀγάπη; the verb ἀγαπάω goes back to Homer. Took on an elevated sense in the Septuagint and New Testament.

How it has changed

Liddell-Scott records both the classical sense (family/spousal affection) and the Christian sense (unconditional love, charity, the love of God).

Dispute & caveat

One of five genuinely attested Ancient Greek love terms. See the note on the popular “8 loves” framework.

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