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Kilig

[ˈkilɪɡ] · KEE-lig · Tagalog / Filipino · noun / adjective
positiveintensity: highjoyanticipation

The giddy, exhilarating rush.

Definition

The giddy, exhilarating rush — butterflies, tingling, flushed elation — caused by an exciting or, most characteristically, a romantic moment.

Connotation & usage

Names the acute felt sensation of a romantic high point (a glance, a confession, a hand-hold), not a sustained attachment or sexual desire — “kilig is not yet love.” Unlike anxious nervousness it is pleasurable and excited, and it is notably vicarious: one can feel kilig watching a couple on screen.

Literal sense

“shudder, thrill, tingle”; closest English idiom “tickled pink.”

Related words

Etymology

A borrowing from Tagalog kilig; a native root word.

How it has changed

Added to the Oxford English Dictionary in the March 2016 update (alongside “teleserye”), with earliest English evidence dated to 1981. (It is sometimes wrongly reported as a 2025 addition — that refers to a routine revision, not its inclusion.)

Dispute & caveat

Often loosely equated with “butterflies”/limerence; sources caution it is the momentary thrill, not the relationship state.

Sources

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