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Jealousy

[ˈdʒɛləsi] · JEL-uh-see · English · noun
negativeintensity: highfearanger

Anxious, resentful fear of losing something you have.

Definition

Anxious, resentful fear of losing something you have — especially a relationship or affection — to a rival.

Connotation & usage

The fear and resentment of losing what one has to a rival — protectiveness over one's own attachments (the conventional three-person situation: you, the loved one, the rival), versus envy's covetousness of what another has (two-person). It is the word used in romance (“the green-eyed monster”), and “jealousy is enmity prompted by fear.” Common usage often blurs jealous and envious.

Senses & usage

Possessive (romantic)

Suspicious resentment at the threat of losing a loved one's affection to a rival.

The dominant sense, attested from c. 1200; Shakespeare's “green-eyed monster.”

Zealous vigilance

Fierce, watchful guarding of something cherished — “a jealous God,” guarding freedoms “with jealousy.”

A relic of the word's positive origin in zeal; jealous and zealous are doublets from the same root.

Related words

Etymology

c. 1200, from Old French jalousie, from jalos “zealous; jealous,” from Late Latin zelosus, from zelus “zeal,” from Greek zēlos. So jealousy shares its root directly with zeal and zealous.

How it has changed

The zeal connection is the key thread: in Middle English jealousy could mean “solicitude, regard” and even “zeal, devotion” (the connecting notion being “watchfulness”). The surviving “zealous vigilance” sense is a relic of that positive origin. No reliable recent-generation shift.

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