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Contrition

[kənˈtrɪʃən] · kun-TRISH-un · English · noun
negativeintensity: mediumsadness

Heartfelt, humble penitence.

Definition

Heartfelt, humble penitence — sorrowing regret bound to a will to make things right.

Connotation & usage

It foregrounds the sorrowing regret at the heart of genuine penitence, turned toward repentance and amendment, and carries a strong religious and moral register (its root means literally “a grinding, a crushing” of the spirit). Where remorse is anguished, gnawing self-reproach over the deed, contrition is humble sorrow that reaches toward forgiveness and reform. (Theology sets it against attrition — imperfect sorrow felt only from fear of punishment.)

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Etymology

c. 1300, from Late Latin contritionem “grief, contrition,” from conterere, literally “to grind” (com- “together” + terere “to rub”). Used in Church Latin for “crushed in spirit by a sense of sin.”

How it has changed

Originated as a Christian theological term — a figurative extension of the literal “grinding/crushing” — and modern usage remains weighted toward the moral/religious sense. No reliable recent-generation shift.

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